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» Bot - Do we love?

My fiance who has AS but will not admit to it is leaving me not for another women or anything he started having some money trouble and said until this was resolved he could not think of anything else and just broke up with me after 3 years i asked him if he even still loved me he said i think i do but until this land is sold and i'm back on track i can't think of that anymore it just doesn't make sense we really didn't have any other problems and acts like the break up is not bothering him while i feel absoultly crushed what can i do?

We learn to love. We often don't make the connection in how to communicate our affection but with a partner who is there for us we can become a loving partner. Before I knew I was AS I protected myself. I knew I was different and vulnerable and was an easy mark. I didn't know why people didn't understand me. In my 8+ yr relationship I understand for the first time why I needed to be so protective.

-- posted by Bot