One of the hardest things about being a parent of a child with special needs is being honest about your child. Being able to identify their strengths and weaknesses is not always easy with an autistic child in large part due to their lack of communication and due to your hope and love as a parent. You are not always sure what they truly know and understand. First of all, again it is vital that you do all the necessary assessments and tests. Then it is important to be honest about what they are capable of handling. Some children will flourish in a mainstream environment. My son has grown leaps and bounds this past year with his program. Some children may have a lot more issues or may truly be mentally impaired and need a special education environment. Just get to know your child, be honest and do your research on what programs are available.